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19 August 2007 @ 06:06 am
Upsetting news from Kyrieane
kyrieane has had to temporarily delete her journal due to somebody (name withheld)) on her flist giving her flocked posts to Dusty, her estranged husband. She hopes to be back within the month. Please pass the news on to anyone who freaks when they see she's been emboldened. ;)

She's okay, considering the circumstances, which means kinda shook up and unhappy, but is still here in spirit.

~~~sends love and fairy dust her way~~~

ETA-the-last (26 August): Comments by 'name withheld' and a defender (apparently not a sock) have been deleted (and 'name withheld' banned and anon non-friend comments to this post are now screened) because this post is supposed to be a PSA, not a battleground or the gateway to a shitstorm in some other journal.
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Reading Roomkatholicgrrl on August 19th, 2007 03:03 pm (UTC)
Delurking here to agree with all who are saying that the person who betrayed Kyriane should not have their identity protected. That was a heinous thing to do, the woman doesn't need that, nobody dealing with life's shit need a third party coming in and stirring the shit just to amuse themself. Kyri and I don't even share a fandom anymore, but she was one of my very first friends here. (((sends hugs and love)))
flaming museflaming_muse on August 19th, 2007 03:16 pm (UTC)
That's horrible! I'm shocked and infuriated that anyone would do that to her.
angelicvampyreangelicvampyre on August 19th, 2007 03:20 pm (UTC)
*hugs to kyrieane*
cetpar on August 19th, 2007 03:20 pm (UTC)
Hi. I don't really know kyrieane, but I also heard about this from a mutual friend. I wanted to come by and offer my support. I agree with wesleysgirl and others, and I would be happy to help shun the person who did it if the name comes to light. Because what that person did is just *wrong*. I can't think of any situation that could even remotely justify what (name witheld) did.
tabaquitabaqui on August 19th, 2007 03:36 pm (UTC)
Jayzus fucking Christ.
Dude.
You know, i wanna know who was that much of a fucked up asshole so i can, if they're on my flist, unfriend.
Unfriend *hard*, because that is so fucking totally not on.

Thanks for telling us and having this here for Kyri to read.

Kyri, bay-bee - *hugs you hard*. Come back when you need to, we'll be here.
katbcollkatbcoll on August 19th, 2007 03:39 pm (UTC)
Oh man, that sucks! *adds best wishes to the mix*
and boo to "name withheld" for that.
(Anonymous) on August 19th, 2007 03:44 pm (UTC)
Reply from Kyri
Anon because I obviously cannot log in!

*clings to you all*

I don't even know what to say at this point. I am overwhelmed and emboldened and incredibly touched by all of your love and support. You all have been such an amazing part of my life for the last 4 years, I honestly don't know what I would do without each and every one of you.

I want to assure each and every one of you, the person who caused me to take this drastic action is not on your f-list. This is a person who was a friend in RL, and while she is in fandom, her pairing is far-removed from ours.

Thank you all so very much, I will keep in touch, I've lost too much already to lose you all as well.

*hugs*
WesleysGirlwesleysgirl on August 19th, 2007 04:32 pm (UTC)
Re: Reply from Kyri
*More hugs* I'm SO SORRY you're going through this, and I have to try to believe that the person who did this will get what she deserves.
Re: Reply from Kyri - xanphibian on August 19th, 2007 04:56 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: Reply from Kyri - knotted_rose on August 19th, 2007 05:25 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Re: Reply from Kyri - ladycat777 on August 19th, 2007 07:01 pm (UTC) (Expand)
ngaio on August 19th, 2007 04:20 pm (UTC)
Sending her hugs and support.
Skein: House Aaaah!forlornhope42 on August 19th, 2007 04:46 pm (UTC)
Sends a serious curse the traitor's way! What a Dreckspatz!

And there's a ton of hugs included for kyrie - hang on in there, sweetie! We miss you!
Abbie Strehlow: Friendsknotted_rose on August 19th, 2007 05:22 pm (UTC)
DH: Thanks for letting us know.

Kyri: You have my deepest sympathies. This sucks beyond the telling of it. I am so sorry that you've been betrayed this way. Please know that you are loved and that you will be missed. Let us know if there's anything that we can do to help.

Also? You and I were in an IM chat if this person happens to meet an "accident." I have the logs right here to prove it. ::nods sagely::

::hugs::
taruma: Spike hugtaruma16 on August 19th, 2007 05:32 pm (UTC)
I was shocked when I saw her name crossed out.
But now I beyond furious. How can someone she considers her friend betray her like that?
I hope she knows the name at least and can remove that person from all her life, not just her flist.
*big hugs to kyrieane*
Amalthiaamothea on August 19th, 2007 06:13 pm (UTC)
thanks for the heads up, I'm pretty pissed off at the person that betrayed her trust. :(
kaydee23kaydee23 on August 19th, 2007 07:10 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry someone did this to you. So sorry. I hope you'll be okay and come back soon.
aimeelicious: BSGresolve_byancarettaimeelicious on August 19th, 2007 07:11 pm (UTC)
Breaking the f-lock is dreadful enough online, but when it can potentially have a negative effect on a "real world" personal situation like divorce/custody, there aren't any words for how heinous it is. Please pass on my love & hugs to Kyri, and thank you DH for keeping us posted.
kitanekitane on August 19th, 2007 07:33 pm (UTC)
Kyri, I'm just in shock someone would do this to you. What's going on with you & Dusty is none of this person's business even if they know both of you in RL. This person is pure slime.

Keep moving forward. It sounded like there were some really good things happening with you, so try not to let this bring your down.