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19 August 2007 @ 06:06 am

Upsetting news from Kyrieane

kyrieane has had to temporarily delete her journal due to somebody (name withheld)) on her flist giving her flocked posts to Dusty, her estranged husband. She hopes to be back within the month. Please pass the news on to anyone who freaks when they see she's been emboldened. ;)

She's okay, considering the circumstances, which means kinda shook up and unhappy, but is still here in spirit.

~~~sends love and fairy dust her way~~~

ETA-the-last (26 August): Comments by 'name withheld' and a defender (apparently not a sock) have been deleted (and 'name withheld' banned and ~~anon~~ non-friend comments to this post are now screened) because this post is supposed to be a PSA, not a battleground or the gateway to a shitstorm in some other journal.

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iadorespike on August 19th, 2007 05:44 am (UTC)

Oh no...*pets her*. What an awful thing for someone to do. *sigh* I hope she's able to come back soon...*sigh*, and thanks so much for letting us know.

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darkhavens on August 19th, 2007 06:27 am (UTC)

I hope she is too, but if not, I will keep in touch, and keep her in touch, any way I can.

She has the link to this post so I'm sure she'll be by to read everyone's thoughts.

Thanks.

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ladycat777 on August 19th, 2007 06:01 am (UTC)

*gapes*

Someone seriously --

I just. Why does the world have to suck so much?

People are assholes.

Thank you for letting us know and tell her I miss her and love her and hope she's okay. And god forbid I ever find out who it was, because that is just henious. Bad enough to break flock over stupid fannish shit, but this? No.

FAIL.

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darkhavens on August 19th, 2007 06:24 am (UTC)

yeah, I'm sitting here full of righteous fury and unable to do anything about/with it. She knows she's loved and will be missed, I made that very very clear, and with any luck she'll be back soon anyway, but if she isn't, she'll be out there lurking in the corners and keeping an eye on us. *g*

EPIC FAIL.

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aislinn_tredor on August 19th, 2007 06:07 am (UTC)

Uch. Why do people have to be complete morons? It's horrible that happened to her!

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darkhavens on August 19th, 2007 06:29 am (UTC)

Amen to that, but she knows she's loved and missed and also knows she can reach out if she needs to. She'll be back soon. *hopes*

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eboniorchid on August 19th, 2007 07:14 am (UTC)

Ack! I don't even know her, but I remember going into f-lockdown last year when a RL ex+stalker came online to hassle me+friends and if I had f-listers that were feeding him stuff, I would've totally been hurt and pissed off beyond recognition. That's SO uncalled for! I can't understand that AT ALL, honestly, and I'll keep her in my thoughts during these trying times.

*shakes a general fist at humanity*

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literati on August 19th, 2007 07:46 am (UTC)

I am beyond disgusted. Ugh. This is why I hate people. I'm thinking of a four-letter word, begins with c and ends with a t.

*hugs and vibes for kyrieane*

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kitty_poker1 on August 19th, 2007 11:20 am (UTC)

Words can't express how disgusted I am at (name witheld). Anybody who would masquerade as a friend and then betray that friendship in such an underhanded manner is beneath contempt.

Just when you think people can't go any lower...

**Love and kisses and best wishes to Kyri**

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entrenous88 on August 19th, 2007 01:17 pm (UTC)

Oh my gosh! That's horrid. I really hope she continues okay.

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yin_again on August 19th, 2007 01:31 pm (UTC)

DH- Thanks for letting us know.

Kyri- love you, miss you. Lemme know if you want me to rip this person a new one. I would gladly do it. Gladly. Hang in there darlin'. You're missed.

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wesleysgirl on August 19th, 2007 01:35 pm (UTC)

Oh man, that SUCKS.

Personally, I hope whoever did it's (assuming it's known) name gets out so that an appropriate community response can occur. I would be DEVASTATED if I knew anyone I'd given access to my locked posts was capable of something like that.

*Hugs* to kyrieane.

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writan_bur on August 19th, 2007 01:36 pm (UTC)

Bloody hell. *scowls* Some people...

*sends hugs to kyrieane*

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tzi on August 19th, 2007 01:37 pm (UTC)

Oh, hell no. I don't know who that name belongs to, but I'm pretty sure it doesn't deserve to be withheld. That's the sort of thing that had ought to get someone completely ostracized by, oh, everyone ever. Not that I know either of them personally. But. Seriously. There are some sins that are unforgiveable.

Like I say, I don't know kyrieane, but if she needs anything... I'll be glad to do what I can to help out. Because that? That was SO very very wrong.

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wolfshark on August 19th, 2007 01:41 pm (UTC)

Pass on my love to her, please?

*kicks Dusty and the unnamed person in the pants*

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ponders_life on August 19th, 2007 01:46 pm (UTC)

That sucks. Poor Kyri! ::hugs Kyri:: If there's anything I can do to help, let me know!

Why is (name withheld)'s identity being protected? I think he/she should be named and exposed as one who does not respect the flock and cannot be trusted. How many of us have this person on our flists as well? If this person is on my flist, I want to know so that I can unfriend him/her ASAP. I think a little virtual shunning is in order.

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ex_uniquewo on August 19th, 2007 02:55 pm (UTC)

Here via Yin.

Thanks for giving us some news, darkhavens. I was a bit worried indeed.

@ Kyrieane: ::hugs:: I hope things are ok and that you'll be able to come back soon. As some have said, you're missed and loved. ::hugs again::

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mirasol on August 19th, 2007 03:01 pm (UTC)

Jesus, that's just so wrong. Breaking the flock is hugely bad anyway but in this kind of situation it's way beyond the pale.

*love and hugs for Kyriane*

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